A female friend surprised my wife and I recently by asking if she could watch us have sex.
We had been talking about how common and mainstream is was becoming to watch porn. She admitted to watching and said she liked amateur ‘real’ porn best. She liked the naturalness of it … the flaws, the imperfect lighting … the realness.
This led to a fun discussion on whether any of us would want to watch people have sex, live. My wife and I had been to a ‘live sex show’ once in Amsterdam. It was fun but not really sexy… very contrived. We have, however, been in situations where people have bene having sex around us and it was very hot.
So, all this to say, everyone quickly agreed that watching real people have real sex was pretty hot.
And then she put it out there – “I’d love to watch you two (my wife and I) have sex”. We asked what she would do and she said just watch and let herself get turned on (i.e. masturbate). We talked about it lightly for a while and left it at ‘something we should all definitely consider because it could be fun’.
So… what should we do?