A friend of mine has a nurse fetish. He loves it when his wife dresses as a naughty nurse and anytime he roles out the dirty talk, there is always a seductive nurse making a special appearance. The scenario is always similar – he’s the patient, she enters his room innocently, things start as a normal examine, but then things get flirtatious and then outright sexual.
Pretty standard for fare… but the reasoning behind his fantasy is fascinating. He can track back to the exact moment it began. He was 13 years old, in the hospital and had a gorgeous and sweet redheaded nurse that he had a ‘huge crush on’ He said he can remember her in almost every details and recalls waiting in his hospital bed, constantly hoping she would come in to visit. He swears there was nothing sexual in his thoughts then (he was sick) but he definitely had a crush on her. And it has imprinted deeply into his sexual psyche.
I have read that this is a common source of our kinks and fantasies. We experience some quasi sexual (or even non sexual) thing during our sexually formative period… and it imprints. For me, an older sister of a friend let us watch her undress once. Now… suppose, surprise, I love watching women tease and pleasure themselves.
How about you… what are your kinks and can you trace back to their sources?