In our ever fast-paced world, we see people grasping desperately at ways to slow things down. Think the slow food movement, or the growing popularity of meditation and yoga retreats. In this same vein, I’ve got a new movement we should launch: the Slow Sex Movement (or SSM).
Picture it: how many quick hand jobs or rolls in the hay would you trade for one night of long, drawn out sex? For a night that includes sexy games, teasing, maybe a little light bondage, or [insert your favourite fantasy here]? If reading this made you twitch, then you are a prime candidate to support this movement!
My husband and I had a night to ourselves last night and were planning to go to a friend’s party. When I confided that I was incredibly horny and would prefer to stay in and ravish each other, let’s just say it took no further convincing. We opened up our box of tricks and got out a few favourite toys, a skimpy outfit for me to wear during our dinner in, and some sexy discussion cards. We played on and off throughout the evening, but always held a little something back, stopping just in time to let things continue to build … and when we finally peaked … let’s just say it was huge.
Sure life’s busy and you can’t always make time for a 2-3 hour sex session … but the Slow Sex Movement is all about looking for the opportunity and capitalizing on it when you can. All those in favour, raise your #@*!