Flowers and chocolates are fine. But, surely, on this specialest of special days to celebrate your love, you can do better than that.
Valentines Day is an awesome opportunity to introduce (or reintroduce) a little sexual spice to your relationship. To step off the beaten path a bit and select a gift that may reignite the start.
So, what is the right balance to strike between (i) a romantic, thoughtful gesture and (a blatant play to get your partner doing something dirty? This can be delicate. So, before the suggested gifts, an optimistic thought… if you are feeling it might be good to introduce a little more fun, kink and overall sexiness into your relationship, it is very possible – even likely – that your partner s feeling exactly the same way. While you need to approach this in a way that doesn’t make him/her feel inadequate, many a partner is more than open to a little sexual experimentation.
So… what to give? A few fun suggestions
- 101 Nights of Great Sex by Laura Corn. This is an amazing ‘activity book’ for adults. The book contains 101 tear out envelopes (50 for men; 50 for women; 1 for both) that give you a scenario/activity to surprise you partner with. Anything from trying a sex toy together to a wild night at a strip club. They are not all home runs, but my wife and I have used this book for years… its a blast.
- His and hers lingerie. Everybody loved nice lingerie, yet we often don’t buy it for ourselves
- A new sex toy.. or your first sec toy. This is a great way to both introduce some excitement and learn more about how your partner pleasures him or herself
- An erotic date night – take your partner to a strip club (this works better if the ‘her’ is taking the ‘he’. A guy who suggests a strip club for valentines day.. well that can be hit or miss
Hope your valentines day is a sexy one.