What the mind can imagine, the mind can eroticize. And there are no limits to what the mind can imagine.
So.. here’s a fun activity if you’re looking for a way to spend a few hours on a Saturday evening – alone, with a partner or with friends.
I came across the ‘human sex map’ recently (http://www.humansexmap.com). It is a listing, in cartographical form, of the range of sexual fantasies and kinks that exist. It runs from the very vanilla, to the pretty vanilla, to the pretty out there to the ‘I hardly knew it really existed’.
The way it is laid out is fascinating. Imagine a map of Europe. Each country is a ‘land’ – the land of mundane, the land of D&S, the island of uniform fetishes, etc. And them, within each of these countries, there are provinces listing the sub-kinks or activities – everything from dry humping, anal beads, spin the bottle, bukkake, to statue fetish.
And then the challenge – for each of the activities (and there are hundreds), colour-code your map into: (i) tried and liked; (ii) tried and didn’t like; (iii) would like to try; (iv) no interest.
I plan on trying it, first with my wife and then with a small group of friends. Could lead to some interesting discussions.