My wife and I had a fun discussion last night over drinks — what did we want to do in 2014 to enhance our relationship, especially the sexual side. We do this each year to make sure we are putting effort into things we really enjoy, but that can fall by the wayside if not deliberately focussed on. Here is what we came up with
- We want to get to know some people who are open about sex and sexuality and with whom we can have open and interesting discussion about sexual stuff. We find that most of our friends, while we like them, are not very sexually open. We would like to find some friends who are (not to replace our current friends but as an addition
- do regular “sexy” dates, like going to a strip club, having a couples’ massage or something else sexy
- Go to Desire resort in Mexico 2 times – this is a fantastic sexy resort that, if you are sexually adventurous, I would highly recommend
- Have a regular date night (at home or out)
- get regular babysitting – once a week
I will let you all know how these go.