One of our (my wife and I) semi-regular date night activities is staying home, after the kids are in bed, and playing a sexy broad game. These games usually involve some combination of sexual trivia and/or sexual discussion and activities. We think it is a fun way to spice things up home and draw out a sexy evening.
We have always thought it would be fun to play some of these games with friends (we would do the sexual trivia and discussion games, but maybe not the sexual acts parts), but we have had a hard time identifying friends who would be into this.
As anyone who reads my blog knows, I am pretty comfortable talking about sex and am perplexed that it is such a difficult topic for so many people. In fact, I love talking about sex.
But, vis these games, here is what I find:
– our ‘vanilla’ friends would view these games as too much. They love to discuss sex when it comes up organically. That said, they are still uptight about sex and I think they would consider a sexy game too ‘overt’ and would be embarrassed playing it because it is too open an admission that they are into sex
– our ‘swingerish’ friends think this is too PG. I admit that I do not have a huge circle of swinger friends, but when I have discussed this dilemma with the few swinger friends I have, there reaction is: why not just get on with the sex.
So, my questions remains…. are we total geeks for liking sex, but wanted to engage in discussion and tittilation through these admittedly dorky board games?