A couple years ago my wife and I started a regular, mid-week at home date. On a Tuesday or Wednesday evening, we will put the kids to bed by 8 and open a bottle of wine. The “date” is very simple. We hang out and chat about non kid or family related things. The discussion often turns to sex and sexual topics — sometimes fun, frivolous things like who among our friends do we find sexy, who would you like to see naked, what would you do if you walked in on a couple having sex….
This is a great way to connect sexually and get out of the busy transactional tole that a busy week can take on you.