Christmas is great. But staying on your in-laws house… with your brother-in-law’s family (and the inlaws)… that’s not great for the sex life.
How do you make your holidays – and your sex life – as fun as possible in these trying circumstances. I have three tips:
1. Settle for a quickie. No matter how busy you are and how crowded the space, you can find 10 minutes of privacy. It may not be your ideal, but ducking into the bathroom together, even just to stick your hands down one another’s pants for a quick release, can be what it takes to get you through the evening of aunt Betty’s boring stories about the war.
2. Get away on your own. Your family doesn’t need you 24/7. Take a couple of hours and get out of the house – together – and decompress and reconnect. If it leads to a blow job or mutual masturbation in the car or a quickie in Barnes and Noble’s bathroom all the better. But at least take the time to enjoy one another.
3. Manage your expectations. Maybe the sex won’t be great over the holidays, but the time with family and friends will be.