There is nothing better than vacation sex. Except…
We leave today for a two week family vacation in Florida. Its us and our two kids, staying with my inlaws.
Sex is am important part of mine and my wife’s relationship and the idea of having two weeks of little privacy and non-stop PG and G rated activities is a little distressing. This is an annual ritual for us (the family March break vacation), so we’ve developed a few tips for make it more sexually bearable:
- It starts with the packing. Make sure you back in a way that anticipates some sexy distractions while you’re on vacation. Sexy underwear, sexy discussion card, [quiet] sex toys.. anything that can remind you that its an adult vacation as well as a family vacation;
- build in couples time. Not every minute of every day needs to be spent with family in order to make it a successful family vacation. My wife and I make sure we build in time for mini-dates (have a coffee together) and real dates (go out alone for dinner);
- build in sex time. On some of the dates – and this is not cheap I suppose – the ‘date’ involves going to a hotel and spending two hours revising each other. For all you’ve spent on the vacation, another coulee hundred dollars to buy two hours of erotic bliss… priceless;
- quiet sex. Not all sex needs to be mind blowing with screaming orgasms. Even in a bedroom right next to the kids or inlaws, you can make it work
I love family vacations – the quality time, the relaxation. sun. But we cannot imagine all of that devoid of some sexy fun.