I was (pleasantly) surprised recently when a friend confided in me that she loved anal sex. I had always considered her pretty cautious and conservative in all things sexual, so this came as a bit of a shock.
I know for a fact that she is not someone who experiments with sex a lot. And she is not someone who will do things sexually just because her partner asked. So how she ended up with his dick in her ass was a mystery to me.
So I asked. Her answer was pretty good. Especially if you are person who is not experimental by nature. That she knew that she and her husband had become pretty stale in terms of sex in their relationship. She knew there were options for remedying this, but many were beyond them at the moment. She has wanted to experiment with a third (a woman) but this was not the right time in their relationship to introduce a new person. She would like more drawn out passion, but they are super busy and this would cause more stress than fun.
So, she made of list of new sexual things they could try that would require no more time (because they have none) and would not be seen as an external threat to their relationship (at this point opening up their relationship, even in a fantasy sense, would be hard).
So… after a little list-making and soul searching, she’s got his penis in her butt. And she loved it.