Personally, any excuse to get naked works for me. But nothing is quite so fun and liberating as being at a summer barbecue and hearing the call to naked swimming… especially the it is from someone you would never have expected to initiate.
This was our experience last night. At a picnic with friends, just as the sun was setting. The wife of a good buddy – a woman I would never has imagined as the skinny dipping type – started talking about how much she used to love skinny dipping with friends. That was all it took, and within 5 minutes all 8 of us were in their pool.
It was truly fun. A bunch of middle aged couples swimming around naked. All innocent and harmless and really, really fun.
So, what would it take you to partake in a little skinny dipping with friends:
- would you do it simply if asked
- would you need to feel it would not lead to sexual behaviour
- or would you want it to lead to a sexual dynamic
- would you think about how your spouse might feel – would they want to join, would they be upset that you were doing it
- would you worry about others knowing or finding out
- or would you simply go for it??