With the holiday season behind us, it’s a good time to think about setting this year up to be everything we want. And, hopefully, part of ‘everything we want’ includes sexy.
I was speaking with friends the other night about some of the things they (and we) are doing to make sure we are setting up for a fun, sexy, adventurous year. A few interesting ideas:
Get your fitness back
Sexy requires energy and self esteem. Both energy and self esteem are significantly helped by good fitness. Whether it’s a few extra holiday pounds or that mid-life ennui that had gotten you a little lazy and sedentary, this is a great time of year to recommit to your fitness. Join a gym, get our for a run or ski, or convert your basement into a home gym… get active. For my wife and I, we’ve had tremendous success with Beachbody videos and a home gym.. They are intense (very) but whip you into shape unlike any workout I’ve done in the past.
Plan a sexy vacation
There is nothing better to focus your sexual energy like the anticipation of a sexy reward. We try to plan a sexy getaway each March. For us its often a trip to a sexy southern resort but any warm winter vacation can build some sexual energy
Make sexy new years resolutions
Is there a new kink you’ve been wanting to explore (eg. role play, light bondage…)? This is a great time of year to commit to that and to start to put your mind around how you may want to introduce this into your life.
This overhyped concept is the most important one. Many people feel reserved of guilty about their sexuality. Embrace it. And let 2019 be the sexual year you want it to be.