Are your sexual proclivities seasonal? Last February we did something we’d never done. A full-blown BDSM night with friends . It’s not something we have tried before but we were all keen. We hired someone to coach us on safe, light, fun BDSM play, and then we rented a local dungeon for just the 4 of us, and had a wonderful night.
We loved it and immediately wanted to do it again. Not the next day, but soon. So, by the time we got organized to try again, the warm weather was coming. We were hanging out at our favourite outdoor patio, having a drink, when it came up. When do we want our next BDSM night? The immediate consensus – feels like a fall activity.
I think it was something about the darkness and coldness of BDSM that had all of us thinking – that’s not something you do in the summer.
So, as summer turns to fall, its got me thinking of what are the seasonal sexual tricks it may be fun to pull out of the tickle trunk at this time of year.
For one things, we’ve gotten out our full blankets. It may be because we’ve been spending time at the cottage lately. And cool evenings start earlier when you are out of the city. But we’ve spent more time cuddled naked under furry blankets. Not exactly X rated, but definitely a sign of the season.
A little more spicy – fall seems to be a great time to get tied up. We love light restraint play. But the idea of being retrained and massaged and all of the wonderful things that come with that… seems more of a cold weather activity.
Learn a dance. I’m not sure this is a cold weather activity. But each of the last two years, as the warm weather dwindled, my wife and her closest friend have taken a class to learn a new erotic dance. Last year they hired a private instructor to choreograph a dance with them. It was awesome. This year, that same instructor was offering a group class, so they are now going to that.
I’m sure the list is much longer. Fall is a sexy time. Manage your seasonal transition well.