From the pen of my wife:
Christmas shopping should be fun … but as it gets closer, it often feels like we’re just trying to get things checked off our list. When you’re feeling that way, it’s time to think about how you can spice the season up with some sexy gifts. They always put a smile on my face (and my husband’s)!
Here are a few ideas:
- Experiences – these are always the best! Think about how you can surprise your lover … it could be an evening at home, an unexpected night at a local boutique hotel, or a trip to the strip club. Envision something you think would excite them, and put some time and effort into planning it. I like to think about how to set the right mood, what to wear (especially lingerie … or no underwear), and any fantasies to play out. And you can never do this too often!
- Lingerie – okay, ladies! While we’re not supposed to gift ourselves during the holiday, this is one area where that rule doesn’t apply. But yourself some sexy lingerie, and wrap it up with his name on it. You’d never dare try this with a sweater or dress, but I’ll guarantee this trick will get a good reaction.
- Toys – I was speaking with the salesperson at a local adult toy store recently, looking for suggestions. She was shocked when she heard we hadn’t used a cock ring before. Apparently, it’s a really common toy. Maybe you can’t wrap it up and put it under the tree, but sounds like a toy that’s sure to please! And there are many, many other ideas in this category (vibrators, dildos, restraints, blindfolds, costumes, body paint, etc.). Be creative, and stretch the boundaries a little bit. You won’t know you like it if you don’t try it.