If you’ve ever been on an adult dating site, you’ll see a myriad of claims: ‘can go on for hours’; ‘amazing stamina’; ‘will pleasure you all night’. We’re certainly given to believe that there is nothing more manly than being able the ability to deliver a rock hard erection for ahour after hour of deep penetration.
But is this what women are looking for? Turn out… NO!
A recent study – albeit a pretty un-scientific one done by you tubers – found that women wants a sexual session to last approximately 30 minutes (foreplay included) and they want the penetrative part to last for an average of 5 1/2 minutes.
This is important for guys to know. Firstly… check out the ratio of foreplay to penetration; women want, on average, 25 minutes of warmup and 5 minutes of deep thrusting. Individuals will vary, but in my experience, longer foreplay and shorter penetrative sex is usually the right call.
Secondly, there is certainly a belief among guys that women want us to last once the thrusting starts; this appears to be only true to a very limited extent. I’m sure a girl doesn’t want three thrusts and done. And if she is orgasmic from penetration, I’m sure she will often want it to last long enough to get her off as well. Yet… after 20 minutes or so, things can get raw, it can hurt and it can even get a little boring. My wife both likes penetration and is multiple G-spot orgasmic. Yet… on a normal evening of sex, 10 minutes penetration is probably just about right for her. On a wilder night, I would say 20-30 minutes max. But.. when we have time, she would be into hours of foreplay (but… on the flip side that… on a busy Tuesday night, 10 minutes of foreplay and all the bill too)
Fascinating… they don’t want to go all night. They want to go for about half an hour and then watch some TV, have a glass of wine, chat … or maybe just take off.