I had written a post a while ago about our new hot tub and uncertainty we were having on ‘dress code’. I have asked a few friends since then – both sexually open friends and others who are more conservative – about what what should be worn in a hot tub when adults friends come over for a soak.
To my disappointment, the most common advice was to keep the bathing suits on. I, personally, like the freedom and sexual titilation of naked hot tubbing, but certainly would not want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. So, based on the advice I was getting, my wife and I decided the default assumption when hot tubbing with adult friends would be bathing suits.
So imagine my delight last Friday night… Friends – close friends but pretty conservative and sexually cautious friends – came over for a drink and suggested a hot tub. My wife and I said sure and went up and put on our bathing suits. When we retuned downstairs and went out of the hot tub, we found our friends already in, fully naked.
I was thrilled. It wasn’t like anything sexual would or did happen. But it have a nice sexy, flirtatious edge to the evening. Loved it!!