Our friends fall into two pretty distinct camps. We have our ‘serious friends’ and our ‘sexy friends’.
Our serious friends .. who we like a lot … tend to be pretty serious and diligent. They are active, interested in politics, tend to be pretty active in their communities. Good people but they trend toward serious. A typical evening out is a couple of drinks, maybe dinner, lots of interesting discussion on politics, children and ‘issues’. Not a lot of laughs, but lots of clever insights.
Our sexy friends are not over different, except in a couple of key ways. Our sexy friends can be serious at times also interested in their communities and in politics. But they tend to be a little more balanced between serious and frivolous. We have amazing discussions about sex, sexuality and all other things pleasurable; we laugh much more with our sexy friends; and we tend to drink a bot more and just generally let our hair down more.
Small wonder… we prefer sexy friends. Not exclusively, sexiness can be a little exhausting.. nights tend to end early in the am rather than late in the pm …. but my wife and I are rapidly coming to the conclusion that we prefer the company of sexy people.
So, the question becomes, how to get more sexy people into your lives. A few things we have found:
- own your sexuality – unless we are with family or very conservative friends, we are pretty open out our sexuality and we will bring up sexy discussions topics;
- don’t settle for ‘friends of convenience’. Set your standards high and only hang out with people whose company you truly enjoy
- ‘be the change you want to see in the world’ – be the type of person you would want hang out with
Good luck sexy people.