If you’re lucky enough to have friends with whom you exchange sexy photos: A) you’re a very lucky person; and (ii) there are some basic rules of etiquette you should be respecting. So:
- Never re-share – this is a no-brainer. Never, ever show anyone else the photos that your friends have shared with you.. its the ultimate asshole move;
- Find out the pics are ‘keepers’. When someone sends you a pic its good to know if you are allowed to keep it or whether its expected that you delete it soon after seeing it. Sure, its easy to fib on this one and keep it hidden away, but I wouldn’t.. I may be old fashion but I believe receiving sexy photos is a pretty big privileged that involves a lot of trust… so be deserving of the trust your friend is giving you.
- Be a giver (as well as a getter). If someone if sharing sexy photos with you, they probably would appreciate it if you would return the favour;
- Match their level of sexiness – if a female friend shares a tasteful lingerie photo, don’t come back with a closeup of your junk. If she’s sharing risqué but not explicit, she probably wants the same in return. Vice-versa… if she’s showing you the up-close of her privates, take a hint.. don’t come back with your graduation photo.
Nothing brightens my day like a sexy selfie from a good friend.. but play by the rules.