I had posted a couple weeks ago about a threesome opportunity that had presented itself to my wife and I.
At the time, we were considering whether this was a good idea. We were certainly intrigued and I decided to ‘crowd source’ some advice. There may be some selection bias amongst readers of my blog (you’re a pretty sex positive lot) but the overwhelming advice was to go for it. There, of course, wise cautions and considerations, but by-and-large readers seemed to think it was a good idea.
So, we decided to give it a whirl. To be honest, we weren’t worried about some of the typical issues – jealousy or impact on our relationship. We were worried about her (the third’s) expectations and whether we would all like each other.
So, how did it go?
Shortly after we got back to our friend saying we were into it, our friend had to back out, at least temporarily – there was a death in her family that both drew her time and emotional energy and – very legitimately – put her into an unsexy mood.
We’ll see if things re-ignite.