Video Sex Chatting – hope and hard work

In the fantasy recesses of my mind, the idea of video sexting always intrigued me.  Having a glass of wine and chatting sexily as we watch each other become aroused... I like the idea. I was never under the illusions that it would be easy.... keeping a sexy banter and discussion that is stimulating for … Continue reading Video Sex Chatting – hope and hard work

Germany and Same Sex Marriage – the way democracy should work

As far as conservative politicians go, I love ... LOVE .. Angela Merkel.  She is this generation's finest example of a fiscally wise, socially progressive globalist national leader.  She has, quite literally, held Europe together, saved the global climate change agenda, pulled Europe back from the brink of hate-spawned nationalism (not all the way back, … Continue reading Germany and Same Sex Marriage – the way democracy should work

Sexy Science: Sex and Happiness

In what should come as a surprise to virtually no one, science has confirmed - once again - the link between a fulfilling sex life and happiness.  A series of scientific studies have shown a strong positive link between those who have frequent sex and the happiness/well being they feel in their lives and their relationships. … Continue reading Sexy Science: Sex and Happiness

The Art of the Sexy Gift

When it comes to Christmas gift giving its easy (and tempting) to stick to the basics - clothing, play tickets, hobby-related swag, books... But what if you want to spice things up a bit.. add a little XXX to your Xmas.  Finding the right balance between 'sexy/romantic' and 'self-serving perv' can be delicate. My wife … Continue reading The Art of the Sexy Gift

How to Spice up your Christmas List

From the pen of my wife: Christmas shopping should be fun … but as it gets closer, it often feels like we’re just trying to get things checked off our list. When you’re feeling that way, it’s time to think about how you can spice the season up with some sexy gifts. They always put … Continue reading How to Spice up your Christmas List

Bisexual Boot Camp – a guest blog from my wife

My wife has an interesting dilemma.  In her words: Like many women, I discovered my bisexuality later in life. And for the first few years, I really wasn’t comfortable with the label … bicurious, definitely – but bisexual? Not sure. After getting the chance to play with a number of women through the lifestyle, I … Continue reading Bisexual Boot Camp – a guest blog from my wife