My wife has an interesting dilemma. In her words:
Like many women, I discovered my bisexuality later in life. And for the first few years, I really wasn’t comfortable with the label … bicurious, definitely – but bisexual? Not sure. After getting the chance to play with a number of women through the lifestyle, I now realize there’s a big spectrum of bisexuality, and that I’m definitely to the right of centre (i.e. pretty solidly bisexual rather than bicurious).
So now that that’s cleared up, I’m realizing that I know my way around a man’s body WAY better than around another woman’s body. And I’m wondering how to even things out? Malcolm Gladwell’s 10,000 hour threshold comes to mind … but seriously – who has time for that?
As I was mulling this over, I realized it’s time to use my “phone a friend” lifeline, and ask my husband for help. He has LOTS of experience (and comes highly recommended), and so I’ve asked if he’d be willing to give me lessons … a kind of bisexuality boot camp. By his reaction, you’d think that Christmas came not only early, but twice! So now we’ve lined up a close lifestyle friend to be our ‘test subject’, and we’ve been fantasizing about the lessons all week. I think this bisexual boot camp will be a super hot experience for all involved, and it will help me both embrace my bisexuality and up my confidence in the girl-on-girl department. What do you think? Any other ideas or suggestions?