As a married guy, there are few things I love more than my wife making an effort to seduce me sexually. As guys, we are brought up to think that women give sex because men want it, as opposed to having sexual desire of their own.
As such, there is nothing sexier than when a woman really puts in an effort into showing you she wants to have sex. There are many ways she can do this, but I certainly have my ranking, so from 3 to one
3. The direct route: through her actions or words, she tells you simply and directly that she wants sex. She will start to make out with you, tell you she would like to go up to bed, suggest you watch an erotic movie together. All of these are great and show sexual desire, but they miss the slow build I tend to enjoy
2. Make an event of it: plan an evening where it is obvious she is building toward fantastic sex. This can be as simple as going out for dinner and making sexual conversation or can be more risqué like her taking you to a strip club and getting turned on as you watch the dancers. Evenings like this are really fun, and I have found that the more my wife initiates in these and the more creative, the better they are.
1. Let your horniness ooze from you: I absolutely love it when, over the course of a day, I can see my wife is horny, that she wants to delay sex until we can really enjoy it, but she does; want to. A woman can express her desire for sex in many ways – make a point of showing your partner you are wearing sexy underwear, cop a feel at a slightly inappropriate moment, touch yourself through your clothing when only he is looking, bring up sexual discussion throughout the day. What I like about this is that you delay gratification and draw out the build toward great sex.
Hoping you all have a sexy weekend.