I used to dislike morning sex. Well, to be fair, I loved it in the moment, but I felt it left me feeling a little under energized for the rest of the day. I kind of liked to allow my desire to build throughout the day and then enjoy the release that came with sex n the evening.
I realize this may sound like I’m overthinking it. Or that I’m a little extreme not he delayed gratification spectrum. But its not really that I don’t think. I am a very sexual person. And I find that my energy in the lead up and anticipation of sex keeps me bubbly, happy and dynamic. These are feelings I like to have flowing all day, so I had always felt that sex in the morning robbed me of that a bit.
Things have changed for me a bit recently. We’ve started, a little more frequently, to have sex in the mornings. Especially on weekends. And, for some reason, I don’t feel it depletes my energy. And it leaves me – if anything – wanting sex again in the evening.
But that’s a bit of a sidetrack. Do you prefer morning or evening sex. In the evening, it feels there is more of a build, more foreplay, and a little more variety that goes with sex. I love that. But the morning, its so visceral. Almost more urgent. And I love that too. In fact, I’ve come to appreciate that more and more.
So, I think I’m a convert. I think I’m becoming a morning sex person.