Don’t you love it when your expectations are completely exceeded?
My wife has long fantasized about being with a woman. Not just any woman… but a very particular woman. She wanted to be with someone she liked as a friend, someone attractive and someone who was sincerely attracted to other woman. The first and last criteria – someone she really likes and someone who sincerely likes being with women – are the toughest. The first means it basically has to be one of her friends. The last – despite many woman being along the bisexuality spectrum – in our experience it is rare; there are few women who are both truly bisexual and comfortable enough in this realization to allow themselves to play with another girl. To be honest, she has been with other women, but none that meet these criteria.
But…. We have always thought we knew who that person was. A very good friend of ours – R – who we like very much, has told us many times that she enjoys girl/girl porn and thinks she has a ‘hint’ of bisexuality (she knows my wife is bi). That said, we didn’t really think she would ever act on this desire; she has a history of putting off doing big things she really wants to do).
Recently, however, R told me that, as she is getting older, she has been thinking about some of the adventures she wants to have. She said she has found women sexy for years and wanted to act on this in some way. More specially, she said she would love to kiss a girl to see what she thought, she would like it to be my wife, and she would like it to be in private (ie. no husbands watching).Her situation is somewhat complicated by the fact that she is married, and while she has spoken to her husband about being with a girl and he is supportive, they had not really had a detailed discussion. Another relevant fact, her husband knows (and loves) that there is sexual chemistry in our relationship, but he thinks as it mostly between her and I (as opposed to between the two women).
Fast forward to this weekend. R, my wife and I had plans to go out to dinner at a nice restaurant and then come back to our place for drinks (this is something we do very regularly, so it was not at all weird to be going back to our place). Disclaimer – this is going to sound a little cheesy, but chalk that up to my story telling style – it really was an amazing experience.
At our place, after dinner, the mood was very playful. R was asking us stories about a sexy vacation we had just had. And again, this is pretty normal for us; we all like telling sexy stories and asking intimate and personal questions about the others’ sex lives.
This evening was slightly different because R had just told me about her interest in acting on her bisexual fantasy and she knew I would have shared this with my wife. I think, because of this, R and my wife were cuddled close to one another on the sofa, and there was definitely a physical, flirtatious vibe between them. This was new (and fun) as R and I usually have the more flirtatious relationship). They were snuggled closely together and touching a lot, in a way they usually don’t.
The other thing that was different is that we all knew there was a more physical sexual vibe and (because I am the sexual instigator in our group) they both knew that I was hoping they would act on the desire – I love to see people express and act on their desires (sexual or otherwise).
At one point, R – being as pretty direct person – said ‘you know we’re not going to kiss in front of you – its not a peep show’. I felt in a funny position – (i) I knew they wanted to but it is tough to act on that desire; and (ii) I also knew they meant it when they said ‘we’re not just going to start kissing in front of you’ partly because R wanted to do it for herself, as opposed to putting on a show – which is what she (rightly) perceives a lot of girl to girl sexuality to be. Jokingly, I then closed my eyes and said to go ahead. To appease me, they exchanged a quick peck on the lips – totally innocent and something they had certainly done before – and told me I could look again.
It was all really, very innocent, but it did change the mood. From that point, they were cuddling more closely and stroking one another’s hair.
We continued to chat, but it was clear there was now a more overt sexy vibe. I’m pretty honest in these situations. I said, ‘Look, I know you want to kiss each other. Don’t feel any pressure from me, but I think that if you want to you should’.
And then it started. R reached over to my wife and gave her the deepest, most passionate kiss I had seen in a long time. Despite the buildup, this came as a total surprise to both my wife and I. It was tender, intense and beautiful. Full disclosure – my wife and I have been with other women, but it was always in more or a threesome scenario; we have loved these, but it never really met our fantasy of my wife finding someone that really enjoyed being with women, as opposed to a seque to then both being with a man. The kiss was awesome… because it was just for the two of them.
After the initial kiss, R asked my wife if this was OK. My wife responded with another, equally passionate kiss. R moved on top of my wife, straddling her. The next hour was the most passionate, erotic, beautiful experience of my life (and we’ve been in some pretty erotic scenarios).
It was pretty innocent, certainly not X-rated, and well within the ‘rules’ that R’s husband would be comfortable with. They kissed, they explored each other bodies – through their clothes. Once or twice on of their hands would go a bit further. R reached down my wife’s top and played with her nipples a few times; my wife rubbed R’s pussy through her underwear for a short time. It was a sensual PG+ experience with a level of sensuality I have not experiences in many, many years.
There were a couple of points where things risked going further than they should.. but that is tomorrow’s post.