My wife and I were boing through town today and a guys whistled (yes whistled) at her from a car. My wife works hard to stay in shape, looks great and really likes this typeof positive feedback. I could tell it made her feel really good.
Thirty minutes later we were in a coffee shop and while I was up getting our coffee she was flirting with a professor who was sitting t the next table. It was nothing sexual but she was being really friendly and really engaging him in conversation. My wife is very friendly and she often chats with strangers, but I think because she was feeling a little sexy, she was on overdrive a bit. He obviously liked it and she liked the attention she was getting from.
How did I feel? Great. I love to see my wife feeling sexy and feeling validated for feeling that way (lot of ‘feelings’ there). She’s not going to run off with him and I’m sure she made his day a little brighter as well as hers.
So… tonight, find a stranger and give him or her your best flirtation advances. Whether they take you up on it or not, I bet it makes them feel good.ALittle