‘Nostalgic, romantic, innocent’… when you think about sex in a public place, these descriptors would rarely pops to mind. Sex is public is suppose to be raw, desperate, dirty, taboo. But for me, it takes me back to the earliest stages of my relationship with my wife.. a time of innocence and exploration. My wife […]
Archives for June 2017
The Power of a Cocktail Dress – a guest blog from my wife
Captain America has his shield and Wonder Woman her cuffs. There’s something magical that happens when they put on these accessories imbued with super powers that make these heroes invincible. And for us mere mortal women … our equivalent is a tight little cocktail dress. Something happens when we slip it on, feeling it cling […]
Sexifying your relationship – challenge #1
A Challenge .. to help open up with your partner (or friends) Tell your partner the story of the first time you masturbated.
Is There Anything Better Than Sunday Night Sex?
I can remember a time when I did not like Sunday evenings. It felt like they were a soft start to the work week. We would fold laundry, make meals for the week, often watch bit of TV. All of the energy from the weekend seemed to be gone and we were resting up and […]
Why We Need Sexual Play Zones at Spas
I’m only human. So when my wife and I, last night, spent the evening at a gorgeous outdoor spa with hot tubs, saunas, steam rooms, massage areas.. we couldn’t help but get pretty aroused. The environment is made for two things – relaxation and sexual arousal. Visualize it – a 5 acre resort cut into […]
Crazy-Ass Spaniards… take a cue from Canada
Years ago, when travelling through Spain as a student, I did the Running with the Bulls in Pamplona. What a ‘celebration’ – cram thousands and thousands of drunk people into narrow streets and release bulls…. and run! I will admit that it was an incredible rush to see the bulls charting toward you, knowing that […]
Why I Love Amazon and Google Ads
I’m in a tough position… torn between my love of sexy lingerie and my desire for privacy. What?! Do I really have to choose? Yeah.. kind of. I’ve noticed an interesting pattern in the last year or so. About a year ago, my wife started buying more sexy products online – sexy clothing, lingerie, sex […]
A Book Of Firsts, Part 3: Learning an Instrument (not that one)
Saying I am unmusical is like saying Donald Trump is un-classy… it kind of goes without saying. I was the kid in music class who was hidden in the back row and told to ‘just mouth the words’. In the it came time to pass out instruments … triangle. So, when I signed my kids […]
Etiquette on Exchanging Sexy Photos
If you’re lucky enough to have friends with whom you exchange sexy photos: A) you’re a very lucky person; and (ii) there are some basic rules of etiquette you should be respecting. So: Never re-share – this is a no-brainer. Never, ever show anyone else the photos that your friends have shared with you.. its […]
Hot Wifeing.. learning by doing?
I’ve always marvelled at the variety of activities that ring our sexual bells. Over the course of my sexual life, I’ve met countless swingers (love ’em); a few couples who live in full time master/slave relationships (liked them more than I would have expected); a couple professional dominatrixes (really love them); and fetishists of almost […]