A Book of Firsts, Part 2: Outdoor Bouldering and Rock Climbing

I started a short series yesterday on the importance of still being open to new experiences as we get older.  Yesterday's theme was sex - and I will come back to that - but today I want to go in a different direction. Many of us, if we engage in fitness at all, fall into the … Continue reading A Book of Firsts, Part 2: Outdoor Bouldering and Rock Climbing

A Book Of Firsts Part 1 … Sex From Sunset to Sunrise

As we age – whether we’re in our 30s, 40s, or beyond – it’s important to remember that the time for new adventures and experiences need not come to an end. In that spirit, I’ve decided to do a series of blogs on ‘firsts’. These are experiences I have either recently had in my life, … Continue reading A Book Of Firsts Part 1 … Sex From Sunset to Sunrise

Jealousy – What’s It Good For

I had an interesting discussion the other night with a friend over beer…. In one corner, a swinger friend: jealousy is a useless emotion and setting aside jealousy is the key to happiness In the other corner, an engineering buddy: jealousy has been the motivator of every significant cultural and economic advance in human history. … Continue reading Jealousy – What’s It Good For

Finding Common Ground – Lust

I wanted to revive a theme I used to write on... trying to break down the polarity between the political right and left and the religious and secular.  I'm convinced there is significant common ground in our basic humanity and we can bridge this divided culture war in a fun and pragmatic way... on issues … Continue reading Finding Common Ground – Lust

Weekends With The Guys

I am in process of (maybe) agreeing to a ‘boys’ weekend’ with my old college friends. This is not something I undertake lightly... weekends are precious. Despite what hundreds of buddy movies would have you believe (think Hangover), a weekend with your old college buddies is not necessarily a roller coaster ride of hilarity, hi … Continue reading Weekends With The Guys

Adding Variety To Your Sex Life… are new positions the answer?

Adding variety to your sex life can be challenging. Yet, if you are in a monogamous long term relationship, variety is absolutely essential to keeping you happy and interested as the years past. So, today, I begin a short series on a few things monogamous couples could consider - or sometimes should not consider - in … Continue reading Adding Variety To Your Sex Life… are new positions the answer?