I started a short series yesterday on the importance of still being open to new experiences as we get older. Yesterday’s theme was sex – and I will come back to that – but today I want to go in a different direction. Many of us, if we engage in fitness at all, fall into the […]
Archives for May 2017
A Book Of Firsts Part 1 … Sex From Sunset to Sunrise
As we age – whether we’re in our 30s, 40s, or beyond – it’s important to remember that the time for new adventures and experiences need not come to an end. In that spirit, I’ve decided to do a series of blogs on ‘firsts’. These are experiences I have either recently had in my life, […]
Jealousy – What’s It Good For
I had an interesting discussion the other night with a friend over beer…. In one corner, a swinger friend: jealousy is a useless emotion and setting aside jealousy is the key to happiness In the other corner, an engineering buddy: jealousy has been the motivator of every significant cultural and economic advance in human history. […]
Finding Common Ground – Lust
I wanted to revive a theme I used to write on… trying to break down the polarity between the political right and left and the religious and secular. I’m convinced there is significant common ground in our basic humanity and we can bridge this divided culture war in a fun and pragmatic way… on issues […]
Weekends With The Guys
I am in process of (maybe) agreeing to a ‘boys’ weekend’ with my old college friends. This is not something I undertake lightly… weekends are precious. Despite what hundreds of buddy movies would have you believe (think Hangover), a weekend with your old college buddies is not necessarily a roller coaster ride of hilarity, hi […]
What Does Having a Hot Tub Say About You?
We recently bought a hot tub. We’ve thought about it for a while but the deal was sealed last winter, while my wife and I were outside running (at minus 14 degrees). By the time the next winter came around, we would have a hot tub to soothe our tired, aging, freezing muscles. We decided to […]
Adding Variety To Your Sex Life… are new positions the answer?
Adding variety to your sex life can be challenging. Yet, if you are in a monogamous long term relationship, variety is absolutely essential to keeping you happy and interested as the years past. So, today, I begin a short series on a few things monogamous couples could consider – or sometimes should not consider – in […]
Sex on a Family Vacation
Family vacations are great. Really great. Really. They provide precious opportunities to bond with your children in a way that is tough in the day-to-day busyness of our lives. And they can be fun. Especially as our kids get a bit older we are experiencing some wonderful adventures together. But.. and by saying this I […]
And New on the Bisexuality Spectrum – ‘Mostly Hetero’
Its great to see so many people – men and women – feeling comfortable being open about their bisexuality. Studies have shown that up to 70% of women and 30% of men show signs of same sex sexual arousal (ie. they get turned on when they look at same sex porn), yet very few of them […]
Considering a Sexy Vacation?
Can you imagine anything better than a five star Caribbean resort, sipping cocktails on long white sandy beaches, opulent cuisine? Well, imagine it, and layer on top … everyone is naked or near naked, there is a 60 person clothing options hot tub, a sexy disco and a ‘playroom’ where couples or groups can go and…. […]