Sex on a Family Vacation

Family vacations are great.  Really great.  Really. They provide precious opportunities to bond with your children in a way that is tough in the day-to-day busyness of our lives.  And they can be fun. Especially as our kids get a bit older we are experiencing some wonderful adventures together. But.. and by saying this I … Continue reading Sex on a Family Vacation

And New on the Bisexuality Spectrum – ‘Mostly Hetero’

Its great to see so many people – men and women – feeling comfortable being open about their bisexuality. Studies have shown that up to 70% of women and 30% of men show signs of same sex sexual arousal (ie. they get turned on when they look at same sex porn), yet very few of them … Continue reading And New on the Bisexuality Spectrum – ‘Mostly Hetero’

Considering a Sexy Vacation?

Can you imagine anything better than a five star Caribbean resort, sipping cocktails on long white sandy beaches, opulent cuisine?  Well, imagine it, and layer on top ... everyone is naked or near naked, there is a 60 person clothing options hot tub, a sexy disco and a 'playroom' where couples or groups can go and.... … Continue reading Considering a Sexy Vacation?

A Series of Unlikely Heroes and Role Models: Miley Cyrus

Miley Cyrus probably doesn't show up on many heroes' and role models' lists.  But after this  interview on Zach Sang's YouTube Channel, you may change your mind. I've always liked Miley. I've always found her refreshing in her openness, I love her ownership of her sexuality and she has an enviable ability to reinvent her music and … Continue reading A Series of Unlikely Heroes and Role Models: Miley Cyrus

Sharing the Sexual Wealth – a guest blog from my wife

I like to own my sexuality, and project it whenever I feel I can. Of course, there are times and places where this isn’t appropriate (like with your kids, or within the workplace) – but there are many times when it is, and it feels really fun and empowering. When I’m feeling happy and sexual, … Continue reading Sharing the Sexual Wealth – a guest blog from my wife

The Last Time You’ll Have Sex

I’ve wondered before if we can categorize the people in our lives into two buckets… those still seeking ‘firsts’ and those accumulating ‘lasts’. While I would like to consider myself in the ‘firsts’ camp – recently did my first ever surfing vacation; not long ago had my first sunset to sun-up sexual marathon (well, my … Continue reading The Last Time You’ll Have Sex

How Long Must a Relationship Last to be ‘A Success’

Good friends of mine have just separated.  Twenty two years of marriage, four kids. They dated in high school and accidentally got pregnant the year she graduated high school and he was in his second year of university.  Even with the baby, he went on to finish his undergraduate degree and get a masters. After … Continue reading How Long Must a Relationship Last to be ‘A Success’