Sex in a Tired, Overstretched Society

People are very tired these days.  Studies show that well over half the population is chronically tired. And while we rally to do the things we have to do - work, childcare, getting dinner on the table - it is everything else that suffers. The National Sleep Foundation found that 1 in 4 Americans claim to be too … Continue reading Sex in a Tired, Overstretched Society

Step Mom Porn Fetish… is there a deeper meaning?

Have you ever visited an online porn streaming site... Pornhub, SpiceVOD, etc?  Let me rephrase that... of course you have.  Have you notice when you visit these sites, the huge prominence of 'family-themed' porn... step-moms, son-in-law, taboo families... It's ubiquitous. As a matter of fact, 'step mom' was the third most searched porn theme last … Continue reading Step Mom Porn Fetish… is there a deeper meaning?

The Evolution of Geeks… my trip to Comic-con

I've never really been into comic books.  And while I enjoy the occasional scifi book or movie, I have never really considered myself a fan. So imagine my surprise to find myself at Comic-con this weekend. My daughter is a 'fangirl' and an avid members of numerous fandoms - Whovian, Potterworld, Sherlockian.  She made herself … Continue reading The Evolution of Geeks… my trip to Comic-con

Does Anyone Not Like Seeing Others Having Sex???

"I really don't like the sight of people having sex", said a friend who was over for dinner last night.  We were talking about both rom/com movies and the study I blogged on yesterday, about porn viewing.  And this was her comment. She does not like porn or erotica or even nudity in movies... because … Continue reading Does Anyone Not Like Seeing Others Having Sex???

Porn and Guilt – continues to amaze me

Porn... a gateway to salvation?!?!?! Porn consumption is a tricky thing and individual experiences vary... tremendously. For some... a sexy, escapist hobby; for others.. a relationship enhancer; for yet others... addiction-foder. But this new one... a gateway to salvation.... A new study (from a very reputable and objective source - published in the Journal of … Continue reading Porn and Guilt – continues to amaze me

When is it OK to ask if they are real?

"They're real... and they're spectacular".  Anyone of a certain age will remember that famous line from Teri Hatcher's guest appearance on Seinfeld... after a full episode of Jerry, George, Elaine and Krammer debating whether her breasts could possibly be real... and how they could find out. Its a tough topic to broach. How do you … Continue reading When is it OK to ask if they are real?