I blogged recently on keeping your sex life a priority during the bust holiday season. In that spirit I wanted to share an experience my wife and I had last year that created a fun and sexy memory for us. We were in the height of holiday seasons mayhem. We had just dropped the […]
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We can all fall into ruts. Day-to-day life gets busy and we start to ignore the important, in favour of the transactional. And what suffers… your relationships and you intimacy. So, especially as we find ourselves approaching the hectic holiday season, here are a few tips to make sure you are prioritizing keeping your relationship […]
Ethical non-monogamy has been all the rage lately – couples finding ways to consensually introduce a little spice and variety into there sex lives. I know many couples, us included, who have gone down that path to varying degrees. For some it is an occasional threesome; for others it is swinging at lifestyle parties every […]
Is it worrisome that the highlight of my holiday season is the release of the new Adam Sandler Hanukkah song? Number 4 and still hilarious.
With that cumbersome title, let me get right to the point. It is an truism that sex permeates our thoughts and our desires and, for better or for worse, guides many of our major life designs. Thus…the old chestnut – everything is about sex. But the corollary to that – except sex… sex is about […]
Who is in your community? To whom do you each out to when you want fun, support, sympathy…. A good friend just spent a long, difficult week with her family. Her overwhelming feeling was that, despite their history, her family was neither her support network nor her friend/fun network. And as her kids have gotten […]
Once again, the possibility of life-like sex robots is making the news. We’ve heard this before, but this time it seems close – a robotic doll that looks and (kind of) feels like a women that is programmed for our sexual pleasure. It may not be quite there yet, but imagine a sex doll that actually […]
What comes to mind when you hear about a happy ending massage? Probably a sleazy strip mall, a dimly lit ‘massage parlour’, lonely men… especially the lonely men. Well, it turns out happy ending massages aren’t just for the guys. Esquire Magazine did a fascinating profile on two women who received happy ending massages. And not in […]
We all – hopefully- plan for the next stages of our lives. We save for our kids’ education. We pay off our mortgage in anticipation of being debt-free for retirement. But the future is about more than financial stability. I had an interesting discussion with some friends the other night about our futures. More specifically, […]
“When you have a good friend, you don’t sleep with her baby’s dad”. Sage advice.