You Got What!? in Your Bedroom

What is the last thing your children would want to see if they walk into your bedroom?  I would guess number one is to find you having sex, followed a close second by direct evidence that you ever have sex. Which begs the question... what's with the current trend of getting a stripper pole in … Continue reading You Got What!? in Your Bedroom

5 Great Things To Do on the Weekend – Family Edition

This morning over breakfast our 13 year old daughter asked all of us what our top 5 things to do on the weekend were. There were some good ideas, so I thought I'd share some. From My Daughter (13 years old): - rock climbing outdoors (or in gym); going to a book store; go carting; … Continue reading 5 Great Things To Do on the Weekend – Family Edition

Most Common Sexual Fantasies – A Series (part 3)

As a women, do you fantasize about sex with another woman?  According to sex educator Tracy Cox’s top 20 sexual fantasies for men and for women, this is the #3 most common fantasy for women. Through this series of blogs, I will get into the basis for these 'common' fantasies, how common they actually seem to … Continue reading Most Common Sexual Fantasies – A Series (part 3)

Most Common Sexual Fantasies – A Series (part 2)

I began a series earlier this week, discussing sex educator Tracy Cox's top 20 sexual fantasies for men and for women. Through this series of blogs, I will get into why I think these are common fantasies, how common they actually seem to be, their realizability, and any other disconnected thoughts I may have at … Continue reading Most Common Sexual Fantasies – A Series (part 2)

What’s the Rush? Launching the Slow Sex Movement

In our ever fast-paced world, we see people grasping desperately at ways to slow things down. Think the slow food movement, or the growing popularity of meditation and yoga retreats. In this same vein, I’ve got a new movement we should launch: the Slow Sex Movement (or SSM). Picture it: how many quick hand jobs … Continue reading What’s the Rush? Launching the Slow Sex Movement

Most Common Sexual Fantasies (a series – part 1) – anticipatory or remembering experiences with your partner

What sexual fantasies really turn our crank?   Sex educator tracy Cox has published her top 20 sexual fantasies for men and for women.  They are good lists, so I thought I would dissect these fantasies - one at a time. Through this series of blogs, I will get into why I think these are … Continue reading Most Common Sexual Fantasies (a series – part 1) – anticipatory or remembering experiences with your partner

Afternoon Masturbation – Am I the Only One Missing Out

An afternoon masturbation break? We had a small dinner party last night - just my wife and I and one other couple.  At some point, my wife mentioned that she had been tired earlier and so she had a nap during the afternoon (she doesn't work Fridays).  The wife from the other couple smiled and … Continue reading Afternoon Masturbation – Am I the Only One Missing Out