What books have defined you

A friend recently posted a challenge on Facebook -- what 10 books have influenced you most. Here was my reply... I would be interested in yours. The Great Brain Series (John Fitzgerald) because it made me believe (for a time) that money was the most important thing on Earth; The Alchemist and The Pilgrimage (P … Continue reading What books have defined you

Innocent Exploration – Playtime

What does a small step into a more sexually adventurous lifestyle look like? This is the theme of a movie my wife and watched last night; and the combination of innocence and sexual exploration by the two lead females (housewives) proved to be super exciting to us. In the interest of sharing.... Last month, I … Continue reading Innocent Exploration – Playtime

poor persecuted pervert?

An excellent counter-perspective to the blog I posted this morning. Well worth a read.

Sex Geek

There’s a scandal breaking in Canada. It’s about BDSM. Or is it? I’m not so sure.

Short version: Jian Ghomeshi is a wicked popular CBC host, and the CBC just fired him without disclosing why. He’s retaliating with a $50 million lawsuit (unheard of in non-litigious Canada) and a demand for reinstatement. On Sunday, he made a Facebook post which discloses that he’s kinky and about to be defamed by an unnamed ex-girlfriend and several other past dates she’s recruited, who will insist that his behaviour was non-consensual. A couple hours later, I heard about a semi-recent xoJane article by Carla Ciccone detailing some very creepy behaviour on the part of an unnamed “Canadian C-list celebrity” whom many speculate is Ghomeshi. This article has apparently earned her a serious thrashing by trolls. Later Sunday evening, the Toronto Star posted an article detailing their interviews with four women who are remaining…

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Getting Fired for BDSM Lifestyle

"The State has no place in the bedrooms of the nation". Pierre Trudeau - Prime Minister of Canada - said this in 1967, in support of broad-based omnibus legislation that advanced homosexual rights and eased access to abortion and divorce. Pierre Trudeau would be rolling in his grave this morning, as news roles out that … Continue reading Getting Fired for BDSM Lifestyle

Is It Cheating?

http://bisexualexploration.wordpress.com had a good post asking for people’s views on what is, and what is not, cheating. It got me thinking about (i) what I would consider cheating and (ii) is there an accepted definition of cheating. Here are the conclusions I reached 1. What I consider cheating has evolved significantly over time. I used … Continue reading Is It Cheating?

Why So Hard to Fund Raise for Ebola

What makes a 'perfect' disaster... or a 'terrible' one? I'll give you a hint - The Haitian Earthquake was near perfect. The Ebola outbreak in Africa was awful. And my 'perfect' or 'awful' I mean, of course, fundraising potential. The Haitian earthquake relief efforts raised over $9 Billion. Ebola, so far is closer to $30 … Continue reading Why So Hard to Fund Raise for Ebola