Why the internet needs more porn – and it needs to be much better

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9 photos of new Fifty Shades of Grey star Jamie Dornan topless Why do male porn actors never look like THIS? (Picture: Calvin Klein)

By all accounts we are all a bunch of wankers.

Roughly 94 per cent of London men and 66 per cent of women watch porn (presumably the missing 33 per cent of ladies are too busy reading 50 Shades knock-offs).

Porn has become part of everyone’s sex ‘education’ – although we shouldn’t patronisingly assume viewers can’t tell the difference between acting and real life (if you think the average skin flick features genuine female orgasms you are definitely still a virgin or simply rather dreadful in bed).

Still, porn is influencing real sex lives – from daft expectations about pubic hair to unrealistic sex acts themselves.

So why does the internet need more porn? Essentially because the majority is boring, sexist crap that is not only misinforming people, young and old, about sex but arguably putting lives in…

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