There are some holes from which you can never dig yourself out of. Sexual and emotional infidelity in a marriage if often one of those. Today, I'm having drinks with an old friend who is trying to do exactly that. For over four years she had an emotional and sexual affair with a man from … Continue reading Recovering from Infidelity
A few weeks ago, in the midst of a steamy sex session, I called my husband “Sir” – to amazing results! To give a little context, I’m a very strong and confident woman, so subservience doesn’t come naturally to me. We have a very active and exciting sex life, complete with toys and story telling, … Continue reading Getting your Kink on – a guest blog from my wife
I started a short series recently on the importance of still being open to new experiences as we get older. Some of my themes are sexual - and I will come back to that - but today I want to go more physical. Wake surfing - surfing (on a surf board) in the waves created … Continue reading A Book Of First 4: Wake Surfing
My first bachelor party... I'm 19, and a friend had unexpectedly gotten his girlfriend pregnant was getting married. The bachelor party - a suite at the Holiday Inn, a stripper (at the time I had no idea strippers did house calls) and a bathtub full of beer. At that point in my life I had … Continue reading The Bachelor Party Renaissance
In the fantasy recesses of my mind, the idea of video sexting always intrigued me. Having a glass of wine and chatting sexily as we watch each other become aroused... I like the idea. I was never under the illusions that it would be easy.... keeping a sexy banter and discussion that is stimulating for … Continue reading Video Sex Chatting – hope and hard work
Guys care about the size of their penis. A lot. I'm reading Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We Really Are, Looking at big data derived from internet searches, the author develops a very sophisticated understanding of what we really care about. And men are absolutely obsessed … Continue reading Are you BIG enough?
Here's an interesting exercise. Think back to you in your 20s (assuming you are not still in your 20s) ... what kind of sexual person were you then. And how have you evolved into the sexual person you are now? My wife and I did this last night. It was a special anniversary for us … Continue reading The Sexual Evolution of a Relationship