I like to own my sexuality, and project it whenever I feel I can. Of course, there are times and places where this isn’t appropriate (like with your kids, or within the workplace) – but there are many times when it is, and it feels really fun and empowering. When I’m feeling happy and sexual, […]
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The Weirdest Sex Invention EVER
You’re alone, indulging in a little ‘self-love’. As you’re being swept up in the waves of sexual bliss… literally teetering on the edge of orgasmic inevitability – what’s going thought your head? Is it: (a) that wild threesome scene you’ve been fantasizing about? (b) that new blow job move your partner has been test piloting? […]
Sugar Babies – you in?
I read a story recently about a women in her 40s who, fed up with dating, instead opts for sugar baby relationships. At the moment, she has 4 sugar babies, each whom she gives about 7,000$ a month. The idea – for those of you not familiar with the term – is that an older […]
Surprise – a guest blog from my wife
Most people can readily be divided into two groups: 1) those who love surprises, and 2) those who don’t. My husband definitely belongs in the first category. He loves the promise of the unknown, and can embrace whatever the surprise brings (we’re only talking about good surprises here – like presents, or taking him some […]
What Counts as Cheating… this might surprise you
“I know it when I see it”… United States Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart – when unable to set clear legal guidelines for what would constitute obscenity – said this. He couldn’t quite define what was an was not obscene, but he assured the public that it would be apparent to him – and to […]
Not all sex positions are created equally
In an act of public service, the British pharmaceutical company, Superdrug, has released a survey on the sex positions we love… and those that scare us. The reporting out on the survey was interesting – and what drew me to it. Rather than simply saying what sexual positions men and women prefer, they tried to […]
In Defence of the 50 Shades Franchise
There are three very distinct camps when it comes to 50 Shades of Grey: the sexual progressives – people who are sexually advanced and already into kink seem to HATE 50 Shades. They believe it to be a glammed-up, dumbed-down depiction of the BDSM lifestyle. They, almost universally, find Anastasia’s character to be weak and […]
We’re All In and We’ll Figure Out How Later
I’ve come to realize that one of the characteristics I value most in my friends is an ability to embrace experiences. My wife and I recently decided to host a party. We invited 30 or 40 people. The immediate response were interesting. About 15 people, the moment we sent the invitation, responded back and […]
When Sex Shops Gentrify
A skim latte, 200 grams of imported Italian prosciutto and a butt plug please. This was our Thursday afternoon, as we wandered through the neighbourhood we used to live in. The neighbourhood – the nicest downtown neighbourhood in our mid-sized hometown – is a yuppie Eden. High end clothings stores, gourmet food, amazing restaurants, coffee […]
Death By Loneliness… a new epidemic?
Two facts from recent studies that should give us serious pause for thought: people who feel lonely are 50% more likely to die prematurely more than 1/3 of Americans and 20% of Brits say they feel lonely More and more people are feeling sociality isolated and it is – quite literally – killing us. This […]
A Sexy Advent Calendar – just what your holiday season was missing
As a child, December 1st is a magical day – welcoming in the holiday season with a daily dose of cheap, waxy chocolate. For those of you not in the know, I’m talking about advent calendars. I’m not sure how prolific these things are, but for me growing up, we would have one every year. […]
Is Trump the Anal Douche America Needs To Get Regular Again?
Scott Adams (Dilbert Creator) had a provocative piece in on Mercury News this week. He, essentially, argues that government needs to be broken down and rebuilt in order to be fixed. In his words: “The country needed to be broken before it was fixed. The government had just been ossified,” he says. “And I thought, at […]
How Hard Are You Willing To Work to Stay In Great Shape?
I read this morning that the Rock (Dwayne Johnson) – when he’s filming a movie – gets up at 5am every morning and works out at a gym that he has set up at the movie set. He brings 40,000 pounds of his own gym equipment to every shoot, so that he gets in the […]
Friday Afternoon Sex Breaks
I used to avoid daytime sex. I enjoy sex being drawn out, and I always thought that a quickie in the afternoon would diminish my desire for more drawn out sex in the evening. I can now admit how wrong I was. For ages, different friends who manage to fit in either afternoon sex or […]
Sunday Sex – Join the Crowd
We all have a favourite time to have sex.. the most popular likely being ‘anytime’ or ‘always’. But, if you need to narrow it down – because I like sex to be drawn out and part of a fun energized evening – my favourite sex times are Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. Similarly, I’m less […]
Cheating is in the Eye of the Beholder (a guest blog by my wife)
If you’ve ever listened to Dan Savage, you’ll know that one of the (many) things he feels strongly about is sexual compatibility. While in many ways, opposites attract, this doesn’t hold true in the bedroom. Generally speaking, couples who are best suited for each other have relatively similar sex drives, and a similar level of […]